دانة
2009-12-17, 09:34 AM
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فَضَــائِـــــل النسَـــاء
In the ahadith reference is made of the merit, praise and glad tidings of virtuous women. Ahadith of the beloved Nabi regarding the respect, partiality and consideration to be shown to them and whose study is equally necessary for pious men whereby they may recognize and appreciate the rights of their wives. By fulfilling their rights, one can attain the pleasure of this world and the next. Women, too, should make this true and natural religion, which has given them a distinct place and honour, completely theirs.
I) THE PURPOSE OF MARRIAGE
All praise be to Allah , the Lord of the Worlds, the Beneficent and Merciful, Master of the Day of qiyamah, and blessings and mercy on the chief of the Ambiya who declared his finality in his Nabuwwah saying “I am the seal of Nabuwwah, there is no Nabi after me”, and the blessings and mercy be upon his family and the Sahabah After the reciting of the Khutba, Allah has mentioned in the Ayah
وَمِنْ آَيَاتِهِ أَنْ خَلَقَ لَكُمْ مِنْ أَنْفُسِكُمْ أَزْوَاجًا لِتَسْكُنُوا إِلَيْهَا وَجَعَلَ بَيْنَكُمْ مَوَدَّةً وَرَحْمَةً إِنَّ فِي ذَلِكَ لَآَيَاتٍ لِقَوْمٍ يَتَفَكَّرُونَ
WA MIN •Y•TIH• AN KHALAQA LAKUM MIN ANFUSIKUM AZW•JAL LITASKUN¤ ILAYH• WA JA`ALA BAYNAKUM MAWADDATAW-WA RA•MAH. INNA F• DH•LIKA LA
•Y•TIL-LIQAWMIY-YATAFAKKAR¤N
And among His Signs is this, that He created for you wives from among yourselves, that you may find repose in them, and He has put between you affection and mercy. Verily, in that are indeed signs for a people who reflect”
Ar Rum 21
Whatever the necessities needed from women by men, if one has to ponder, it will result in contentment of the heart, comfort and satisfaction
From this we gather the primary reason for married life is tranquility and peace of the heart. In whichever home this is present, he has in fact attained the purpose of his creation in this life, and wherever a lack of this occurs, despite having everything else, in the matrimonial sense, he will remain unsuccessful and without purpose
ma'areful qu'ran
In this so called enlightened and liberated age, we have disgraced and reduced women to such a state, wherein we are unaware of their rights, and with the misconception of liberation and the guise of religious freedom, we further oppress and destroy these rights resulting in the unhappy state of their present lives and eventual punishment in the hereafter
The ayah has based the peace of the heart as the purpose of marriage and only with both partners knowing each others right and fulfilling them, can this be realised. Otherwise, the argument in the pursuit of matrimonial rights would destroy the peace so desperately sought. The husband/wife relationship is not such as could be maintained by any fixed rule nor implemented by a just court
Only the fear of Allah and the questioning in the hereafter would bring about the fruition of this purpose, Allah has in fact blessed His slaves with an additional gift by not confining matrimonial rights to only religious and legal aspects but has included the natural and sensual aspects by fixing love and tenderness in their hearts; whereby that bond may be strengthened and fulfilled. Allah says:
وَجَعَلَ بَيْنَكُمْ مَوَدَّةً
WA JA`ALA BAYNAKUM MAWADDAH
“We have kept love and perseverance between them”
(i.e. between husband and wife.)
Ar Rum 21
To be continue
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فَضَــائِـــــل النسَـــاء
In the ahadith reference is made of the merit, praise and glad tidings of virtuous women. Ahadith of the beloved Nabi regarding the respect, partiality and consideration to be shown to them and whose study is equally necessary for pious men whereby they may recognize and appreciate the rights of their wives. By fulfilling their rights, one can attain the pleasure of this world and the next. Women, too, should make this true and natural religion, which has given them a distinct place and honour, completely theirs.
I) THE PURPOSE OF MARRIAGE
All praise be to Allah , the Lord of the Worlds, the Beneficent and Merciful, Master of the Day of qiyamah, and blessings and mercy on the chief of the Ambiya who declared his finality in his Nabuwwah saying “I am the seal of Nabuwwah, there is no Nabi after me”, and the blessings and mercy be upon his family and the Sahabah After the reciting of the Khutba, Allah has mentioned in the Ayah
وَمِنْ آَيَاتِهِ أَنْ خَلَقَ لَكُمْ مِنْ أَنْفُسِكُمْ أَزْوَاجًا لِتَسْكُنُوا إِلَيْهَا وَجَعَلَ بَيْنَكُمْ مَوَدَّةً وَرَحْمَةً إِنَّ فِي ذَلِكَ لَآَيَاتٍ لِقَوْمٍ يَتَفَكَّرُونَ
WA MIN •Y•TIH• AN KHALAQA LAKUM MIN ANFUSIKUM AZW•JAL LITASKUN¤ ILAYH• WA JA`ALA BAYNAKUM MAWADDATAW-WA RA•MAH. INNA F• DH•LIKA LA
•Y•TIL-LIQAWMIY-YATAFAKKAR¤N
And among His Signs is this, that He created for you wives from among yourselves, that you may find repose in them, and He has put between you affection and mercy. Verily, in that are indeed signs for a people who reflect”
Ar Rum 21
Whatever the necessities needed from women by men, if one has to ponder, it will result in contentment of the heart, comfort and satisfaction
From this we gather the primary reason for married life is tranquility and peace of the heart. In whichever home this is present, he has in fact attained the purpose of his creation in this life, and wherever a lack of this occurs, despite having everything else, in the matrimonial sense, he will remain unsuccessful and without purpose
ma'areful qu'ran
In this so called enlightened and liberated age, we have disgraced and reduced women to such a state, wherein we are unaware of their rights, and with the misconception of liberation and the guise of religious freedom, we further oppress and destroy these rights resulting in the unhappy state of their present lives and eventual punishment in the hereafter
The ayah has based the peace of the heart as the purpose of marriage and only with both partners knowing each others right and fulfilling them, can this be realised. Otherwise, the argument in the pursuit of matrimonial rights would destroy the peace so desperately sought. The husband/wife relationship is not such as could be maintained by any fixed rule nor implemented by a just court
Only the fear of Allah and the questioning in the hereafter would bring about the fruition of this purpose, Allah has in fact blessed His slaves with an additional gift by not confining matrimonial rights to only religious and legal aspects but has included the natural and sensual aspects by fixing love and tenderness in their hearts; whereby that bond may be strengthened and fulfilled. Allah says:
وَجَعَلَ بَيْنَكُمْ مَوَدَّةً
WA JA`ALA BAYNAKUM MAWADDAH
“We have kept love and perseverance between them”
(i.e. between husband and wife.)
Ar Rum 21
To be continue